We Need Jesus As A Friend!

From the heart of Dr. R. L. Taylor, Th.D., Bible Teacher & Expositor. How can a friend stick closer than a brother? The Bible teaches, “A person of too many friends comes to ruin, But there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24). This remark notes the difference between quality and quantity in friendships. Simply having large numbers of “friends” does not always equate to having many deep, committed allies in times of need. In this context, a “person of too many friends” suggests someone who seeks popularity and shallow relationships. When times are good, those kinds of associations can be a source of pride, or entertainment. But when times are rough, one finds out quickly who their true friends really are. Even a person well-known and popular can find themselves on hard times, made all the harder when their relationships are superficial, false, and shallow. Given the fact that we normally think of blood being thicker than water, this proverb is rather jarring: there are ways that a friend can be more faithful than a brother. True friends can be even more loyal than blood family. The genuine or authentic friend is someone who sticks closer than a brother. In other words, he or she can be counted on. This friend is steadfast; he or she will be there for you even more so than a family member. I understand brotherhood to be one of the strongest relationships we know. A friend who sticks closer than a brother is a priceless and trustworthy friend, indeed. Although Solomon’s observation identifies anyone who is a true friend in time of trouble, the description certainly fits Jesus the Christ! He is the believer’s close, true Friend, who promised, “I will never leave you nor forsake you” (Hebrews 13:5). Jesus is a Friend who’s faithful to be there with us, and for us, in all of our circumstances. It just doesn’t get any better! We need Jesus as a Friend! Be encouraged!