What does Scripture say about apologizing?

From the heart of Dr. Robert L. Taylor, Th.D., Bible Expositor & Teacher. Apologizing. As Charlie Brown would say, ugh! Most of us hate to have to do it. It’s hard to admit when we were wrong and even harder to ask someone to forgive us, especially if the other person was partly to blame! But apologizing is part of seeking humility, and humility is a character quality God holds in high esteem. James tells us, “Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord and He will exalt you” (James 4:10). Apologizing humbles us by reminding us that we are not perfect and we need forgiveness from God and from other people. It generally takes a degree of love or care for someone to ask for forgiveness, as it requires acknowledging that you've hurt them, taking responsibility for your actions, and putting aside pride to humbly ask for reconciliation, which are all characteristics associated with a loving relationship. Saying sorry is not something that comes easily to many people. Why is saying sorry so difficult? Our pride often gets in the way. We fear admitting our faults will make us look weak or diminish our worth in the eyes of others. Pride is a natural defense mechanism but often a counterproductive one. Holding back an apology can rob us of the chance to make things right and build stronger connections. You’d be surprised how much a simple, heartfelt apology can do. It not only heals wounds but often strengthens the bond between people. It triggers a ripple effect of mindfulness, encouraging others to be more aware and compassionate in their actions and words. Apologizing means you VALUE the relationship. The popular idiom, love conquers all is applicable! Be encouraged!