A Closer Look at the Fruit of the Spirit: Gentleness

From the heart of Dr. Robert L. Taylor, Th.D., Bible Teacher & Expositor. For the Christian, the eighth item Scripture lists as “the fruit of the Spirit” (Galatians 5:23) is gentleness. What is gentleness? Gentleness also translated “meekness,” or “humility.” It involves polite, restrained behavior toward others. Many mistakenly think of meekness as weakness. When I think about gentleness, I think about strength under control. Actually, the most gentle people in history have not been weak, but strong and influential. Gentleness or meekness are words used interchangeably in the Bible; both are a sign of a godly person. The opposites of gentleness, (anger, a desire for revenge, and self-aggrandizement) are signs of a weak person. In the Greek New Testament, the word translated as “gentleness” describes a gentle, kind, and forgiving spirit, often displayed in situations where one could have acted otherwise. It's a trait of those who are self-controlled and patient, willing to take unkind remarks with good nature. In other words, when the fruit of gentleness or meekness is on display it is not a sign of weakness, but a sign of bridled strength. Gentleness is produced by God living in us, but it requires our conscious choice and cooperation with the Spirit. We can choose to remain gentle or not. It is power and courage under control, linked with kindness. One who is walking by the Spirit is going to be a gentle person, even in the most trying circumstances...Not because of weakness or cowardice, but because of humility, coupled with the inner strength to control one's behavior. Such was the case with our Lord, who at all times demonstrated the fruit of gentleness. He said, (28) “Come to Me, all who are weary and heavy-laden, and I will give you rest. (29) Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls” (Matthew 11:28-29). We are to learn from Jesus by taking upon His yoke. The fact that the One who is fully worthy to be worshipped and obeyed, the One who is most powerful, and who owes humanity nothing would choose to be gentle towards His enemies, then we, as broken and needy people, must surely do the same. That’s learning from Jesus! Pure gentleness comes from God Himself who gives rest to the weary. Meekness is displayed in Jesus, who was the visible manifestation of the invisible God (Colossians 1:15-20). Be encouraged!